Elizabeth Enlightened

My girls love to help out with everything. They pull chairs up to the counter when any meal is being made so they can feel like they are a part of the process. About the only thing they don’t try to help with is vacuuming which actually causes them to run away screaming.

When the “I makin/helpin” mantra first started in our household, I admit that I found it more annoying then useful. Everything took longer to do because their “helping” created more of a mess then when we started. Now I view it differently. I began to notice that the simplest task, like throwing dishes in the sink at the end of breakfast, gave a huge sense of accomplishment. Even my little one can throw stuff in the trash, pick up her toys, or bring things to momma. They beam with pride when I tell them Thank You and what a big girl they are.

So here are the lessons I have learned from my children:

1. I need to slow down and appreciate the process. I get so caught up in daily routine and am used to doing things myself that I don’t even realize I am on autopilot. Now I view it as teaching them how something is done and the fact that they want to learn is just a bonus.
2. I don’t have to do everything myself. Take this with a grain of salt. They are both under the age of 4 but they can help with more then what you think. Simple things like finding shoes so we can get out the door, picking up toys, helping make beds, throwing diapers in the trash, handing me groceries to put away are all things they love and is one less thing I have to do.
3. It teaches them responsibility. Everyone likes to feel useful, even children. If I can teach them early on to do things for themselves I am hoping it will foster their independence. I could be wrong though.

What have you learned from your children helping you?

Posted in: on Tuesday, May 25, 2010 at at 9:53 AM 0 comments  

That is why Waiting for Superman is this Friday’s feature. It follows a handful of students through their school that does little to help them get to the academic achievement they deserve.



 

Posted in: on Friday, May 21, 2010 at at 2:13 PM 1 comments  

I am an avid magazine purveyor. I love them. I love the articles, the pictures, fascinating people and places that grace each page. I also read my daily horoscope. I don’t live and die by it, but I like to read it everyday just to see if at the end of the day I can say, “Oh, now I see what it was saying.” I have a point, I promise.

The other day my horoscope said something about not comparing myself to the images in magazines because those pictures are staged, airbrushed, and held to almost impossible standards. To be flawed is to be a living, breathing person….or something to that effect. So it got me thinking. This same insight could be held to the home magazines that I like to daydream over. The pictures are always pristine.  Everything is always in place with matching colors schemes and flawlessly decorated. I would love it if all my rooms looked that way, but then who wouldn’t, right?

I recently received my copy of Do It Yourself magazine, and while flipping through the pages, that old feeling of “I wish my living room looked that way” began to wash over me. Then I came to a pretty profound realization: My living room will never look that way (at least in the foreseeable future).

Here is why. See this picture:

1.  I have little kids.  That's right, all of you out there who have kids are probably picking up on the same things I am in this picture.  My kids + light furniture + white rug = disaster.  I try to be conscious of where my kids set down their drink cups but inevitably one gets past me and it results in juice stains.
2. Accessible shelves.  Again, kids will see this as an open invitation to explore the contents of everyone of those baskets to see what they can find. 
3. We have toys....lots of them.  We have separated the toys and make an effort to have our kids pick up what they are playing with before they get out something new.  However, when you have had a long day and everyone is crabby, sometimes it is just easier to leave them out and walk around them.  I know, please try not to judge.
4. I have stuff.  We have clutter in the house which admittedly most of it is mine.  I try my hardest to operate under the "everything has a place rule" but it doesn't always work.
5. No matter what I do it just never stays that way.  About the only time my living room remotely looks similar to this is after I have cleaned because I am getting ready for a holiday/birthday/get together.  You know what I'm talking about. 

Someday, when the kids are older, my rooms will look this way.  Until then, I will continue to daydream and remind myself that I am only human and my space isn't a picture, it's home.

Posted in: on Tuesday, May 18, 2010 at at 3:19 PM 0 comments  

....you rearrange your time the best you can.  This week's Friday Feature will have to be postponed due to time constraints.  My deepest apologies and I will come up with something ultra fabulous for next week!

Posted in: on Friday, May 14, 2010 at at 9:55 PM 0 comments  

Here is another lesson that I took in my writing course.  The class was given several partial statements and we were to choose one and write somethign that would hook the reader.  I chose "According to the oldtimers....".  As you can see the writing prompt could take you in just about any direction that you wanted.  This is what I came up with:

Keira

You will never forget the day you die. That is what I had always been told anyway. According to the old timers we would have many deaths to look forward to, or forget about depending on how you looked at it. I have come to believe it is a little bit of both. Sinking now to the bottom of this murky lake it was definitely the latter of the two.

“Are you ready?” I heard faintly echoing in my mind.

“Nearly,” I thought back.

I wanted to take it all in, the confines of the darkness, the weight of the water, the unbearable panic that besieged my body. I looked at the small pinpoint of light that could vaguely be seen high above me. My chest was on the verge of exploding.

“I’m ready,” I cried silently water rushing into my lungs.

I felt myself dragged from the darkness and I gasped for air sitting upright on the table. The light in the stark white room was almost too bright but it was always that way when you returned.

“That was a close one Keira,” she said pulling the IV from my arm.

“They always are,” I replied.

Posted in: on Thursday, May 13, 2010 at at 7:45 PM 0 comments  

About 6 months ago I took an online writing class because I needed to poke the writing bug who has been hibernating for way too long.  This class centered around tools every writer needs as well as getting over the fear setting your work loose for public consumption.  Getting over the fear is what I am struggling with the most at this particular juncture.  So, in and effort to get things rolling I decided to publish some of the exercises that I completed in class for everyone to read.

In this first exercise we were asked to pick a word and write about what that word meant to us personally.  I picked change.  Here is what I came up with:

Change inevitably happens in everyone’s life. It happens to some people more than others, yet is always available for those who actively seek it. Change can take the form of a residence, employment, relationship, friendship, health; the list is endless. I have seen significant changes in my life. At times I am overwhelmed and left reeling in its wake. This simple word evokes two responses: fear and exhilaration. Change is scary for anyone. There is fear of not knowing what to expect, moving in a new direction, that it will cause failure or heartache. But at the same time change can be exhilarating. It is the mark of a new beginning, a fresh perspective, and a clean slate. Change is the sign that you are breaking a mold, broadening your horizons, or shaking up a routine. For a while now I have been on the precipice of a pretty important change in my life. I have physically craved it although I am not sure what it is. Now I have a choice: do I let fear hold me back from making a change or do I ride the winds of exhilaration and let it carry me forward?

That is what change means to me, what does it mean to you?

Posted in: on Wednesday, May 12, 2010 at at 10:29 AM 1 comments  

Yesterday was Mother’s Day and for me it was a weekend celebration. Festivities included shopping, lunch, my husband’s incredible french toast, sleeping in, watching movies, snuggling, singing, and much, much more. It was a time of family togetherness, sharing love, and celebrating each other. I had a chance to see my family with fresh eyes and this is what I saw:

Brandon, my husband is an incredible father, and my soul mate. He knows the simple things that make all of us happy without even asking. We work together seamlessly to provide a healthy and happy life for our girls. He makes me happy every day and I am thankful we found each other.

Bella is my beautiful, energetic, and independent toddler. She teeters between doing everything on her own and wanting mom to do it for her. She loves her movies, Mo, and bossing her little sister around. She enjoys snuggle time, just the two of us, watching a movie, reading books, or playing games. She is brilliant, creative, and kind. At the tender age of 3 she is already making me very proud.
Maya is my adorable sweet baby girl. She is often in her own little world, singing, playing, oblivious to what is going on around her. She has a fire in her, defiant, and brave. She wants everything done on her terms and lets everybody know if it isn’t. She is serious, contemplative, and curious. It hardly seems possible she is already 1 ½ years old.

This is my family, the people who make it all worth while.  My celebration of being a mother means nothing without them. 

Posted in: on Monday, May 10, 2010 at at 9:35 PM 1 comments  

What do you get when you mix gemstones with inspired creativity? Truly spectacular jewelry and that is exactly what you will find at Jennifer Lynn Jewelry on Etsy. I ran across Jennifer’s store at the beginning of the year when I was searching for a necklace to showcase my femininity. Instantly I was drawn to her collection of bracelets, earrings, and necklaces. Although it was a tough decision, I ultimately ended up purchasing Pool….Aqua Chalcedony and Sterling Silver pendant.

It’s perfect size, shape, and color reminds me of the smooth glass I used to find on the beach as a kid. It personifies cool water on a hot summer day which is why I connected to it. The subtle glow gives it life and a sense of energy. I wear it almost every day and have received numerous compliments from people.

So who is Jennifer Lynn Jewelry? Jennifer is a Minnesotan whose love of jewelry manifested at an early age. The first pieces she ever sold were seed bead daisy chains and woven bracelets. Look how far she has come. Jennifer has a knack of interpreting what each gemstone she works with is destined to be. The pictures alone speak to the nature of each piece and the superior craftsmanship that goes into it.

Recently I had the pleasure of asking Jennifer about her craft and here is what she had to say:

Me: What inspires the designs that you come up with?                  

Jennifer: Inspiration, for me, comes from anywhere and everywhere: flowers, nature, the stones themselves, a picture, and colors. Sometimes, just the color of a stone will invoke a feeling or a memory and I just have to make something with that stone right then and there.

Me: What do you like most about designing jewelry? What is most challenging?                      

Jennifer: I find creating jewelry very therapeutic. It is my 'me' time. I can get lost in my bead laboratory (as my husband calls it) for hours and block everything else out. Personally, the best part of designing/selling is knowing that someone across town, the state, or the globe is enjoying a piece of jewelry I made with my own two hands. The most challenging would have to be pictures!

Me: Do you have plans to turn your hobby into a career?                              

Jennifer: I would love to turn my hobby into a career. I love the idea of being my own boss, setting my own hours, and being an entrepreneur. But, for now, I am happy with it just being a hobby. A hobby that has earned me a few bucks, made me some lifelong friendships, and ultimately makes me happy!

Thank you, Jennifer, for taking the time to visit with us, sharing your work, and adorning women with beauty and style. I encourage you to swing by Jennifer Lynn Jewelry to find something that speaks to you.

Posted in: on Friday, May 7, 2010 at at 3:16 PM 0 comments  

I have decided that consistency is king and in the spirit of my new mantra I am implementing Feature Friday for my blog.  Think of Oprah's Favorite Things Elizabeth style.  I am perfecting the first installment and should have it out for you soon.  Stay tuned!

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Technorati is the search engine for blogs.  It allows people to search for individual blogs and posts.  Pretty cool, huh?  I am in the process of getting set up so throngs of people will flock to my blog.  Alright, well at least to make it easier for people to find it.  Please bear with me as I get verified with this fancy little code MZSYDMM8W5FK  .

Posted in: on Wednesday, May 5, 2010 at at 3:56 PM 0 comments  

How many times have you heard people say, “Someday I would like to ____________” or “I wish I could ____________”, and even “I have always dreamed of _____________”.  I hear it all the time and perhaps I am more in tune to hearing it because I have always been one of “those people”.

I watch a lot of movies with my kids and they all carry a message of go after your dreams, don’t let anyone say you can’t do something, and dreams really do come true. Why is it this message gets lost when you become an adult? Recently I asked a friend where they saw themselves in the next 2 to 3 years and the answer was “ I really don’t know”. It got me thinking, can I answer that question? I have said before how it is easy to get into a routine and the “I will get to it someday” ideas fall to the wayside. I don’t want my someday to be when my kids are grown and I finally feel like I have time for myself.

So my someday starts today…. well, actually about 2 weeks ago. I have always had an entrepreneurial spirit, but the spirit has never led me down a defined path. I have always wanted to have a voice but didn’t feel anything I had to say was important enough. Now that I am reflecting on my own wants and dreams, I come back to these same two things over and over again. That would be why this blog was born, because even though what I have to say might not be important to everyone, it could make an impact on someone. I also am working on some toys and accessories for children because I like to make things and my kids are great guinea pigs. Is this the start of my dream? I think it is, and if baby steps it what it takes to get there then I am definitely on my way.

Posted in: on at at 3:18 PM 0 comments  

I am a big fan of all things homemade. I love to cook fantastic meals from scratch, I love to craft, and I love finding people who are making new and innovative products by hand. This is why I am an Etsy junkie. I visit this site daily, multiple times, probably more then I should be. I am blown away by the thousands of incredibly talented people that are out there doing what they love and sharing it with the rest of us.

If you are not familiar with Etsy, think Ebay for homemade goods, vintage items, and crafting supplies. This is a community of artists, crafters, stay-at-home moms, and people from just about every walk of life. They make jewelry, clothing, soap, accessories, homegoods, art, and just about every other fun thing you can imagine.

I personally have purchased many supplies and a couple of items as well.  I have always been pleased with the friendly atmosphere, quick shipping, and overall way transactions are handled so smoothly.  Sometime soon I will have my own store up and running, but that is a conversation for another post.  In the coming weeks I am hoping to feature some sellers so you can get to know them and the products they have to offer.  So, if you have some time and feel like shopping, hop on over to Etsy and see the multitude of treasures that are waiting for you.

Posted in: on Monday, May 3, 2010 at at 1:50 PM 0 comments